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A WOMAN TIPPED A CUTE WAITER $1,000. HIS GIRLFRIEND TEXTED HER BACK

2.5K views · 2d ago · 2:48:14

What type of seductress are you? We took the quiz on each other Top 6 Best Ways To Seduce Your Spouse, ranked J-Rod's origin story: how he discovered comedy trying to be cool The TED Talk guilt trip, being "smart," and meeting our son's new teacher A woman tipped a cute waiter $1,000. His girlfriend sent it right back Tobey Maguire officiated his ex-wife's wedding to a billionaire. We debate why Druski is hosting SNL.

Topics: "See You Later, Not If I See You First" saying breakdown · Why Did the Chicken Cross the Road: comedy analysis · Finding value in comedy / growing up with Kenyatta · Childhood personality development & discovering humor · Trying to be cool: Mase, Avirex & waves · How humor gets you girls / discovering singing

How to REALLY seduce her | Episode 351

630 views · 2w ago · 2:58:10

THE FAST GROWING PODCAST IN VIRGINIA BEACH IS BACK WITH A BRAND NEW EPISODE! FIRST, WE DIDN'T MISS EPISODE 351 -- IT'S HERE! WE EXPLAIN WHY DURING THE EPISODE! WE TALK ABOUT A BUNCH OF DIFFERENT THINGS INCLUDING SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES, BEING JUDGED FOR BEING OPEN TO YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES AS A WOMAN, NOT WANTING TO REVEAL WHO YOUR PARTNER IS, AMD REVIEW SOME OF THE LATEST COMEDY SPECIALS OUT! THERE'S A LOT MORE BUT... YOU CAN JUST LISTEN NOW TO HEAR ABOUT IT LOL. ENJOY!!!!

I WANT MY ASHES IN A DIAMOND, SHE SAID ABSOLUTELY NOT!

356 views · 3w ago · 7:00

J-Rod lays out exactly how he wants to go out: cremated, a little bit of him turned into jewelry, a karaoke-themed funeral with R&B songs about loss. Kristen shuts most of it down, arguing a funeral is for the living, not the dead, and that she's not wearing his ashes in a diamond. Fully comedic, surprisingly detailed, and ends with him naming who he actually trusts to carry out his wishes (not the kids).

We Said Forgiveness and Closure are BOTH FAKE

682 views · 3w ago · 15:15

FORMER AMERICAN IDOL CONTESTANT WROTE LOVE SONGS ABOUT HIS AFFAIR BEFORE OF KILLING HIS

196 views · 3w ago · 7:31

Former American Idol contestant Caleb Flynn was convicted of killing his wife after prosecutors played text messages and songs he'd written for the woman he was having an affair with - including one sent the day of the murder. We break down what came out in the texts, the "I guess it didn't happen the way we thought it was gonna happen" message, and why the songs themselves ended up in the courtroom.

I SAW "SCHOOL" ON THE CALLER ID AND ASSUMED THE WORST ABOUT MY OWN KID. I WAS WRONG

290 views · 3w ago · 7:16

J-Rod got a call from his son's school and immediately assumed his kid was in trouble. The actual message was a recorded death notice about someone in the school community - and his first feeling, before anything else, was relief that it wasn't about his son. He calls his own reaction "terrible" and extends condolences to the family, but owns the uncomfortable honesty of what his brain did in that moment.

SHE MADE ME RATE HER LOOKS AND HER PERSONALITY OUT OF 10. ON CAMERA. SEPARATELY.

476 views · 3w ago · 16:23

This started as Top 6 item #2 ("being a 10 is about personality, not looks") and turned into Kristen making J-Rod actually rate her, out of 10, for looks and personality separately, on the spot. He lands on a 9 for looks and a strong 7 for personality - and has to explain both numbers in real time. This is also where J-Rod pulls out his phone to show Kristen pictures of two women a friend once called "badder" than her, so there's a second debate buried in here too.

WE GOT INTO A REAL ARGUMENT OVER WHETHER "NEUROTYPICAL" ACTUALLY MEANS ANYTHING.

328 views · 3w ago · 11:32

J-Rod's #1 pick for Top 6 Things That Don't Exist: "neurotypical." His argument is that there's no real baseline for what's typical, that labels get used to sort people into categories that serve the system more than the individual. Kristen pushes back hard, arguing severity and real neurological difference are what the label is actually pointing at. Neither of them backs down - this is a genuine, unresolved disagreement, not a bit.

MY WIFE WON'T LET ME PLAN MY OWN FUNERAL. SHE SAYS IT'S NOT ABOUT ME | Episode 349

1.8K views · 3w ago · 2:42:51

We made a list of six things that don't actually exist, and the fight over our number one ("neurotypical" isn't real) got more heated than anything else this week - plus J-Rod rates Kristen out of 10 for looks and personality separately, on camera.

Topics: Sour Candy Review (Final Boss Sour) · School Called About Son (the death notice and the reaction he's not proud of) · Vegetables Don't Exist · Top 6 Things That Don't Exist (Intro) · How Was Your Week · Planning His Own Funeral

Show Me The Pictures | Episode 349

380 views · 1mo ago · 2:51:36

IF YOU LIVE IN FLORIDA AND RENT, YOU NEED TO SEE THIS NEW LAW

397 views · 1mo ago · 6:19

Starting October 1, 2026, Florida is making it a felony to use fraudulent pay stubs to get a rental. We break down the real math behind rent-to-income requirements and why this law is going to hurt the people it's supposed to be protecting.

ENCOURAGING my WIFE to use her TOY

529 views · 1mo ago · 7:11

J-Rod recognizes the exact pitch Morgan just described from the video he saw scrolling on that plane, and admits on camera that he's been pushing Kristen to use her device more. He explains why: the idea that regular orgasms build on each other, and that skipping them for too long leads to something called vaginal atrophy.

THESE SEX PHOBIAS ARE REAL AND WE BOTH ADMITTED TO HAVING ONE

568 views · 1mo ago · 9:34

Genophobia, erotophobia, the fear of losing an erection, venustrophobia - these are all real, documented phobias, and we go down the list admitting which ones hit close to home. One of the most honest conversations we've had on this show.