The Healing Trauma Podcast

Betrayal Trauma Activates Childhood Wounds With Michelle Mays

628 views · 1mo ago · 10:56

Betrayal Trauma Activates Childhood Wounds Michelle Mays shares her background as a licensed professional counselor and author with 20 plus years of experience treating sexual addiction, trauma, relationship issues, and betrayed partners. She explains betrayal trauma theory and why betrayal belongs at the center of trauma, not as a side issue. The conversation connects childhood trauma with adult partner betrayal through attachment theory and the nervous system.

Your Mother May Never Be Able to Change With Dr. Lindsay Gibson

3.1K views · 2mo ago · 9:01

In this clip, Lindsay and Monique explore the dynamics of emotional immaturity, defense mechanisms, and strategies for softening emotional wounds. They discuss how sensitivity and perception can influence relationships and the importance of boundaries and self-care.

Emotionally Immature Family

5.4K views · 2mo ago · 14:51

Guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson

About our guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of a number of books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and her new book, How to Raise an Emotionally Mature Child.

Letting Go Of The Fawn Response

644 views · 3mo ago · 9:43

Guest: Dr. Clayton

The full conversation with Dr. Clayton on Fawning In this clip, Dr.Ingrid Clayton unpacks the complex trauma response known as fawning, exploring how it manifests physically and emotionally, and how it can be understood and healed. This conversation offers deep insights into the physiology and psychology behind fawning, providing practical guidance for those seeking to reclaim their authenticity and safety.

Emotional Immaturity in Mothers With Dr. Lindsay Gibson

4.3K views · 3mo ago · 10:13

Guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson

About our guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of a number of books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and her new book, How to Raise an Emotionally Mature Child.

Creating A Safe Relationship With Your Child

1.4K views · 4mo ago · 9:40

Guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson

About our guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author of a number of books, including Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and her new book, How to Raise an Emotionally Mature Child.

Emotionally Immature Mothers Teach You To Disconnect From Yourself And Others

157K views · 4mo ago · 10:06

In this short segment of the video Dr. Lindsay Gibson describes the attributes of an emotionally immature mother. She shares how there can be an interruption in "being-ness" when a young child goes to her parent in need of emotional support and connection and is turned away and how that can create disconnection to self and others.

Breaking The Cycle Of Emotional Immaturity With Dr. Lindsay Gibson

22K views · 4mo ago · 47:46

Guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson

In this brand new episode, Dr. Lindsay Gibson shares her groundbreaking approach to parenting, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional maturity in children and how to foster it. Monique and Lindsay explore the dynamics of emotional immaturity, how past traumas affect parenting styles, and practical mindsets that nurture resilient, emotionally aware kids.

How Past Trauma Shows Up Now With Dr. Janina Fisher

517 views · 4mo ago · 26:02

In this replay conversation, my guest renowned trauma expert Dr. Janina Fisher discusses her model TIST (Trauma Informed Stabilization Treatment) and the concept of the living legacy of trauma, emphasizing how trauma's effects persist in the body and mind beyond past events.

Trauma-related Dissociation with Dr. Kathy Steele

666 views · 5mo ago · 25:51

Guest: Dr. Kathy Steele

In this interview, Dr. Kathy Steele explores the complex world of dissociation, trauma, and mental health. She discusses different types of dissociation, the development of self, and practical strategies for healing and integration. Books

Betrayed With Michelle Mays

501 views · 6mo ago · 32:46

In this conversation, host Monique Koven is chatting with trauma therapist and author Michelle Mays. They discuss the concept of betrayal trauma, its connection to attachment theory, and how childhood trauma influences adult relationships. Michelle explains the importance of understanding betrayal trauma as a relational issue and outlines the three trauma traps that betrayed partners often face: fear of loss, shame, and powerlessness.

Help me Understand Dissociation With Dr. Bethany Brand

946 views · 7mo ago · 37:38

This replay episode features Dr. Bethany Brand—author, trainer, and forensic expert in trauma and dissociative disorders. In this conversation, she answers key questions about dissociation, including the different types, levels of severity, its connection to trauma, and available treatment options. You’ll gain a clearer understanding of how dissociation impacts mental health and learn practical steps for managing it effectively.

Mother Hunger With Kelly McDaniel

2.3K views · 7mo ago · 20:22

In this replay conversation, psychotherapist Kelly McDaniel discusses her book 'Mother Hunger,' which explores the deep emotional needs for maternal love and the impact of unmet needs on women's lives. She explains the concept of mother hunger, the essential needs from a mother, and how these needs shape our relationships and emotional well-being.

Early Bonds Affect Adult Relationships with Melissa Callahan

160 views · 8mo ago · 25:10

Guest: Melissa Callahan

In this replay conversation, licensed marriage and family therapist Melissa Callahan discusses the profound impact of early attachment experiences on adult relationships. She explains attachment theory, the different attachment styles, and how early trauma can shape our perceptions of safety and trust in relationships.

Do I Have CPTSD? with Tim Fletcher

335 views · 8mo ago · 9:09

Guest: Tim Fletcher

In this clip, guest Tim Fletcher discusses the nuances of trauma, especially complex trauma and CPTSD, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional needs, validation, and self-love in healing.