Taylor Johnson - Integrative Sexual Health for Men

The Edging Habit That Killed My Ejaculation Control

22K views · 1mo ago · 9:00

I teach men ejaculation control... but during one of the most stressful periods of my life, I fell into a masturbation pattern that dramatically reduced my ejaculation control AND erection strength... This is the story of what happened, and what I changed to reverse it...

Topics: The mistake I didn't see coming · How it crept in · The 2 scales most men mix up · What morning erections reveal · What I trained my body to do · Is edging bad?

Sex Lasts 5.4 Minutes On Average. Here's What 710 Men Want Instead.

2.2K views · 1mo ago · 8:30

The best-known study on how long penetrative sex actually lasts had 500 couples use a stopwatch. The median was 5.4 minutes. But what do men say they actually want? From the men who've enrolled in my Orgasmic Mastery course over the last seven years, their most common answer was 20 minutes. Not a marathon, and not a sprint. Just enough time to be able to relax into sex and enjoy it - without worrying about ejaculating - and without fighting your own arousal.

Topics: The 5.4 minute study, and what 710 men said they want · Where this data comes from · Having sex vs managing sex · What couples report, and what they say they want · Self-reported sex duration VS actual sex duration · The real shame & frustration from premature ejaculation

My Understanding of Women’s Sexuality Just Cracked Wide Open

25K views · 8mo ago · 32:33

My entire perspective on women’s sexuality recently shifted — especially around the idea of containment. In this video I share a personal realization that changed how I understand arousal, dominance, submission, deep pleasure, and the layers of shame many of us carry around sexuality.

7 Days at a BDSM Training — It Went Deeper Than I Expected

5.6K views · 8mo ago · 20:53

I just completed the “Tantra Meets BDSM” 7-day training with Om Rupani and Laurie Handlers. And wow... This video is a personal integration — what I experienced, what blew me away, and what I’m still unpacking. If you watched my video before attending, this is the follow-up. And if you’re new here, this is a candid look into my own personal growth as a sexual human. Welcome.

Topics: A Turning Point in My Life · Containment · BDSM Scene Creation · Problematic Man/Woman Archetypes · I LOVE Being a Dom · Your Attention is Your Most Valuable Resource

I’m Studying BDSM for the Next 7 Days (In-Person) — And it Feels Edgy

1.4K views · 8mo ago · 9:26

This is my personal update just before diving into 7-day BDSM retreat taught by Laurie Handlers & Om Rupani. It’s called “Tantra Meets BDSM” - and I’m 90% excited and 10% feeling edgy. Seems like the perfect ratio. Let me know your thoughts & questions if you have any.

The Orgasmic Mastery Course (Self-Study) Is Now Open — What to Expect

1.6K views · 9mo ago · 6:31

Enroll in the Orgasmic Mastery Course (Self-Study) The self-study version is currently available at a reduced rate compared to the live group offering. See the link above for details.

Topics: How the Course Works · What's the time investment? (Hours per week?) · What if you're single? · Is this a beginner or advanced training? · Course access duration. · Self-Study group calls & mastermind.

How I Finally Stopped Premature Ejaculation (The Real Reason It Took So Long)

6.1K views · 1y ago · 11:32

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual challenges men face... and I've got good news & bad news: The GOOD NEWS is you can absolutely 100% stop premature ejaculation and last longer during sex - with the right training. The bad news is most men quit trying right before the real results start to happen (and fail in the process)...

Topics: Most men quit premature ejaculation treatment too soon · The "Dip" concept explained · My personal sexual growth story · How long does it take to see results with PE training? · How to tell if you're doing the correct practices · Quick fixes for PE & ED? (Viagra, numbing spray etc)

How I Finally Stopped My Sexual Performance Anxiety (For Good)

2.3K views · 1y ago · 8:07

Self-acceptance will unlock your true sexual freedom. It's THE KEY that helped me stop sexual performance anxiety in my life. If you're not where you want to be, don't try to be someone else... Don't try to fight against what's real. Own it. Then change it (while enjoying the journey).

The ONE Sexual Practice Every Man Should Do Daily (Embodiment)

24K views · 1y ago · 11:23

Get my free guided practice here: - and know this: Most men trying to improve their sex lives are missing one crucial ingredient: embodiment. And this is one of the main reasons why so many men have "tried all the techniques" but still struggle with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and sexual performance anxiety...

My Heart Cracked Open... (Personal Story with the Strozzi Institute)

4.5K views · 1y ago · 32:14

IMPORTANT NOTE: What I forgot to mention in the episode was that the experience was so strong for me, I had to spend the rest of that evening back at my AirB&B, going back and forth between laying down on the bed crying with emotional opening/release - and getting up to do intentional movement practice to feel everything fully and integrate. I didn't eat, I didn't distract myself with social media or tech...

Topics: Somatics Explained · The Strozzi institute (Where I'm Studying) · Somatic Bodywork Explained · The Story: My Heart-Opening Transformation · Advanced Somatics Retreat Update (Rescheduled) · Sex & Heart (My Biggest Challenge & Growth Areas)

From Boy to King: Mature Masculinity & Conscious Love - with Max Trombly

2.2K views · 1y ago · 1:02:09

Guest: Max Trombly

What if the reason you keep choosing the wrong partner... is a belief you picked up at five years old? Much of our adult life we're actually making decisions from unconscious patterns that shape who we’re drawn to, how we show up in relationship, and why many men feel stuck chasing chemistry instead of building conscious connection... THIS is a moment when the boy or the prince within us has to grow up into a man.

Topics: Max's Story of Transformation · What Is a Core Wound? · Personal Story of a Wound · How Childhood Shapes Love · Dating from Your Wounds · Visualize Your Ideal Partner

He Built a $750M Empire Using Semen Retention..? (Dave Asprey) Let's talk...

14K views · 1y ago · 35:57

Dave Asprey is controversial figure who says semen retention helped him make hundreds of millions of dollars... and this is my reaction video to an interview between him and Caitlin V, where they talked in-depth about semen retention, sexual energy, and how men can use these powers to make more money...

Topics: The Power of Sex · Ejaculation Frequency (How Often Men Should Ejaculate) · Ejaculation Hangover · Semen Retention Lifestyle · Technique to Stop Premature Ejaculation · Semen Retention & Money

Men Are Struggling With Sex & Dating — (How to Fix It) - with Caitlin V

2.9K views · 1y ago · 1:13:19

Why are so many men feeling lost when it comes to sex & dating? From porn, performance pressure, social isolation, fear of rejection, lack of good role models, a hyper-sexualized society and the lingering impacts of MeToo - modern men are facing a perfect storm of challenges that are very difficult to navigate - and are rarely talked about...

Topics: Welcome & Intro · The State of Modern Men (in Sex & Dating) · Impact of MeToo and Porn on Men’s Intimacy · Pornhub Searches Reveal a Deeper Longing for Connection · The Hard Truth About Dating · What Happens When Women Start Initiating?

The Woman’s Role in Polarity (More Than Just Following His Lead) - with Londin Winters

1.7K views · 1y ago · 1:16:14

Guest: Londin Winters

What if the sexual polarity practices meant to ignite your sex life are actually killing your connection? In today's episode we explore the dark shadow side of polarity work - and how you can move beyond it to build incredible sexual desire & charge in your relationship.

Topics: Welcome to the Sex Upgraded Podcast! · Londin Winters' Background · The Dangers of Polarity Work · Alpha/Omega VS Masculine/Feminine Polaritry · The Woman’s Role: Leading With Love & Color · How to Become a Woman Worthy of Sexual Worship

Embodiment: The MISSING KEY to Great Sex & Leadership – with John Wineland

2.7K views · 1y ago · 1:03:59

Guest: John Wineland

In this episode: Why embodiment is the real key to sexual mastery, deep love, and trustworthy leadership. THERE'S A REASON most men aren't having the sex, impact, or depth of connection they truly want in life — and it's probably not what you think. In this episode with John Wineland, we explore something far more powerful than any mainstream sex technique — something that's usually missing from most men’s lives: embodiment.

Topics: What Is Embodiment? · Sticking Points for Men in Embodiment · The Deeper Mission: Love · The Transformational Power of Group Men’s Work · Embodiment vs. Strategy and Physiological Transformation · Polarity and Sacred Intimacy Explained